weneeedit
Couple game · 18+

Swipe together. Match your desires.

Each of you answers on your own phone: yes, maybe or nope. Only the ideas you both want show up. Your nopes are never shown to anyone.

Get it onGoogle Play iPhone: coming soon
  • Free to start
  • No ads
  • Private answers
The weneeedit app: a card being swiped to "Yes!"
Yes! from both of you
🔥 New match

How it works

Three steps, zero awkwardness

No need to find the courage to ask. The app asks for you.

1

Link your phones

You both install the app and enter your couple code. It takes ten seconds.

2

Swipe on your own

Right for yes, left for nope, up for maybe. At your own pace, whenever you want.

3

It's a match

When you both say yes or maybe to the same card, it shows up for both of you. Everything else stays secret.

NEW

I want it now, the game for tonight

You're in bed, one phone between you. The game says who does what, starts the timer and turns up the heat little by little.

  • It heats up on its ownIt starts sweet and climbs a level every few rounds.
  • It draws from your matchesYour shared desires come back into the game. Never a card one of you turned down.
  • Quick or all eveningFifteen minutes or forty-five, with whatever you have at hand.
I want it now

Features

Everything to talk about it, and make it happen

50+ packs

From romantic ideas to the boldest ones, sorted by heat level.

SweetFlirtySpicyWild

A chat for each match

Plan it, tease each other, pick the day. Every match has its own private chat.

Secret cards

Write the idea you never dared to ask. It slips into your partner's next draw.

The LOVE button

It lights up when your partner answered new cards. One tap to catch up.

Your own packs

Write your own cards, keep them for the two of you or share them with the community.

Discreet notifications

By default they never show the text of a card or a message.

Preview

A look inside the app

Swipe what you want
Swipe what you want
Match on the same desires
Match on the same desires
Play it in bed tonight
Play it in bed tonight
Your shared wishlist
Your shared wishlist
Talk about it, privately
Talk about it, privately
Ask what you never dared
Ask what you never dared
From sweet to wild
From sweet to wild

Privacy

What you say stays between you

We built weneeedit so nobody feels judged. Not by their partner, not by us.

Your nopes stay secretYour partner only sees the cards you both agreed on.

No ads, no trackersNo advertising, no tracking tools. Your data is never sold.

Encrypted connectionEverything travels over HTTPS and each account only sees what concerns it.

Delete everything in two tapsUs → Delete my account. Your answers and messages are erased.

Read the privacy policy

Pricing

Free to start

One Plus subscription covers both of you.

Free

Free forever

  • 5 packs to start with
  • Matches and private chat
  • Some secret cards and LOVE rounds
  • 2 trial games of I want it now

weneeedit Plus

Monthly or yearly, price shown in the app

  • 50+ packs, all the way to wild
  • I want it now, unlimited
  • Unlimited LOVE rounds and secret cards
  • Community packs
  • Unlimited custom packs
  • One subscription for both of you

FAQ

Your questions

Can my partner see my nopes?

Never. Not your nopes, and not your answers to cards they haven't answered yet. Only matches, when you both said yes or maybe, show up for both of you.

Do we need two phones?

Yes, to swipe: each of you answers on your own, which is what keeps your answers secret. For the I want it now game, one phone is enough.

Is it free?

The app is free, with free packs to get started. weneeedit Plus unlocks everything else, and one subscription covers the couple.

What about iPhone?

The iPhone version is on its way. For now, weneeedit is available on Android.

Who is it for?

Adult couples, 18 and over, who want to talk about it. Nothing is an obligation: a card is an idea, not a promise.

How do I delete my account?

In the app: Us → Delete my account. Without the app, everything is explained on this page.

A question or a problem?

Write to us at contact@weneeedit.com.

Tonight, dare to ask.

Install weneeedit, send the code to your partner and start with a sweet pack.

Get it onGoogle Play iPhone: coming soon