Link your phones
You both install the app and enter your couple code. It takes ten seconds.

Each of you answers on your own phone: yes, maybe or nope. Only the ideas you both want show up. Your nopes are never shown to anyone.

How it works
No need to find the courage to ask. The app asks for you.
You both install the app and enter your couple code. It takes ten seconds.

Right for yes, left for nope, up for maybe. At your own pace, whenever you want.

When you both say yes or maybe to the same card, it shows up for both of you. Everything else stays secret.

You're in bed, one phone between you. The game says who does what, starts the timer and turns up the heat little by little.

Features
From romantic ideas to the boldest ones, sorted by heat level.
Plan it, tease each other, pick the day. Every match has its own private chat.
Write the idea you never dared to ask. It slips into your partner's next draw.
It lights up when your partner answered new cards. One tap to catch up.
Write your own cards, keep them for the two of you or share them with the community.
By default they never show the text of a card or a message.
Preview







Privacy
We built weneeedit so nobody feels judged. Not by their partner, not by us.
Your nopes stay secretYour partner only sees the cards you both agreed on.
No ads, no trackersNo advertising, no tracking tools. Your data is never sold.
Encrypted connectionEverything travels over HTTPS and each account only sees what concerns it.
Delete everything in two tapsUs → Delete my account. Your answers and messages are erased.
Pricing
One Plus subscription covers both of you.
Free forever
Monthly or yearly, price shown in the app
FAQ
Never. Not your nopes, and not your answers to cards they haven't answered yet. Only matches, when you both said yes or maybe, show up for both of you.
Yes, to swipe: each of you answers on your own, which is what keeps your answers secret. For the I want it now game, one phone is enough.
The app is free, with free packs to get started. weneeedit Plus unlocks everything else, and one subscription covers the couple.
The iPhone version is on its way. For now, weneeedit is available on Android.
Adult couples, 18 and over, who want to talk about it. Nothing is an obligation: a card is an idea, not a promise.
In the app: Us → Delete my account. Without the app, everything is explained on this page.
Write to us at contact@weneeedit.com.
Install weneeedit, send the code to your partner and start with a sweet pack.